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How to Avoid Conflict
Conflict is a reality, but the issue is how to manage it.
Traditional wisdom and research say that good communication can improve relationships, increase intimacy, and trust.
Communication is also true: poor communication can weaken a relationship, causing stress, mistrust, and even contempt.
What is the conflict?
Conflict is a common part of any healthy relationship. However, two people cannot always be expected to agree on everything. The key is not to fight fear or avoid conflict, but we need to learn how to deal with it healthily.
When disputes are not resolved fairly so, it can be very damaging to the relationship. But if tried, it can be handled in a respectful, positive way. The conflict then provides an opportunity to strengthen the relationship between two people. Whether you are experiencing conflict at home, at work, or social place. I share skills that can help you resolve differences in a healthier way and build stronger and more mutually beneficial relationships.
Here are some steps you can follow to manage it
Listen First, Talk Second
Listen first, talk second, and then answer in a polite tone. This is a good rule of thumb that…
